Episode 603: The secrets to great relationships, sex and intimacy with NY Times Best-Selling Authors Vanessa and Xander Marin

Uncategorized Mar 27, 2023

Today’s episode is an incredible, unique special one that is all about……sex. You may ask why we want to talk about this on the podcast, but so much of relationships and intimacy really does tie into business, as you’ll learn about today, as well as in our overall happiness in life. 

The quality of your life is absolutely connected with and correlated to the quality of the relationships that you have, which is why we’re so excited to introduce you to our good friends, Vanessa and Xander Marin, to cover these topics! 

Vanessa is a licensed psychotherapist with 20 years of experience in the sex therapy field, and Xander is a regular dude who’s been married to a sex therapist for over a decade! Together, their mission is to take the intimidation out of getting intimate, and they are the authors of the New York Times best selling book, Sex Talks: The Five Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Life, which you can get right now at https://sextalksbook.com/!

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In this episode you’ll hear: 

  • The role that a healthy sex life will play in your relationship and the ripple effect it will have on the rest of your life 
  • The two different types of partners that they see when it comes to sex in a relationship, plus the ways they can learn to work together in this area 
  • A sex and relationship question that a lot of people have never taken the time to consider, but really shout 
  • More questions that give a good starting place for couples to begin talking about sex 
  • Some common myths and misconceptions that many of us are taught about sex and conversations around sex 
  • “Ice breakers” to help make starting these conversations easier 
  • How sex dynamics can change after marriage and children, and why sex will always require an active an ongoing effort by both parties 
  • Tips around active listening and cultivating this important skill 
  • What we have all learned about working together in a business as a couple, and our advice to other people considering this type of arrangement 
  • The impact that doing the work they do has had on Vanessa and Xander’s own relationship 
  • What they consider to be the biggest gift that they can give to those in their community



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